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What exactly is BDSM? Is it for you?

Hey guys! We are so close to New Year…2021, what we have been waiting for over the course of the past few months. It’s finally about the happen! But in all honesty, the news of advanced Coronavirus mutations have sort of killed the whole vibe, if you know what I mean.

Enough of that COVID stuff, let’s talk about something that is related to love and the dating world. So, I have been seeing the term BDSM all over the internet, I mean every major publication has covered this topic in depth. That’s when I though, maybe I also need to throw some light on this intriguing topic for my readers.

That’s what I will be doing in this blog post, giving you guys a overview of a BDSM relationship while covering the whole mistress concept that seems to be a popular kink among millennials nowadays.

Let’s start, shall we? BDSM is back in the scene like never before, thanks to all these Hollywood movies like 50 Shades of Grey and of course the popular dating websites and apps for people who identify themselves as doms and subs.

So the term BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism which act as the four pillars of this interesting lifestyle. Earlier, this preference was considered as taboo in a lot of places but that’s not the case any more. I am also including a link to wikipedia here for those who wish to educate themselves in depth about this topic.

One thing that people don’t really know or are not familiar with is that BDSM is not equivalent to sex. I know the majority of you guys must be shocked to read this line but it’s true. This lifestyle is not something casual, there are rules that need to be followed, there has to be a strong mutual respect between a Dom and a sub or else it won’t work for the long run.

While I was doing my research on the BDSM topic, I fell down a rabbit hole of the dom and sub personalities and the different dominatrix sites that are instantly available at your service. I came to know about a lot of not-so-popular things such as:

People who have had trauma in term lives are not the only ones who adapt the BDSM lifestyle, that’s one of the biggest misconceptions that these Hollywood movies try to feed us. People with normal childhood can also indulge in this lifestyle without feeling guilty.

Remember, it’s all about consent. I often hear about people trying out the BDSM theme for fun and then regretting trying it because they weren’t sure when to say know. Again, in a large portion of BDSM-inspired novels, a lot of force is used on the subs but they forget to highlight the fact that the other person also has the option to say no.

So, that’s all from my side for this blog post but in case, you want me to cover this exciting topic in more depth then feel free to drop me a comment about it.

Thank you so much for reading everyone!!!

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